Church and mission 10/7-Jesus outreach strategy

So many times I think what can we do to bring Jesus people? Is there a particular outreach strategy that the church is supposed to use? We just recently learned that the most effective outreach strategy is to be a community that lives distinctly and in close proximity those who have not yet experienced the kingdom of God. Then I am left with the questions: What does a distinct life look like in this North American context? How can we be in close proximity to those who have not yet experienced the kingdom of God?